A Before and After

Yeah, it's not one of those before and after's.

I'm still a potato.

But I'm a potato who is trying very hard to keep their blog updated. All is going well, the apartment is clearing out, and next week I'm flying 1700km south and not coming back. For a while.

On a side note, my sister broke up with her fiance. It happened on the day I had my two teeth removed (did I write about that? I should have) and that day was still the best day of the week. I mean, it's caused some kerfuffles with my plans but omfg, Nobby Doldrums will not be my brother in law!

That's a celebration right there!

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